Chicago - They are both actively recruiting him. That is the fundamental challenge. The original plan was to visit and tour multiple schools where he was engaged in ongoing conversations. The difficulty comes from the fact that it would be odd to visit school #2 on a day when they are having a camp and not pitch, or not attend the camp at all. While that might help the boy understand and get a feel for the school, it would be either a strange dynamic with the coaches - "why would this kid we are talking to come all the way to the east coast and not play for us/show us his best stuff?" - or it might be a wasted opportunity from our side - "why did we fly all the way to the east coast and not spend time with the coaches at school #2".
In the end we figured being up front about the whole situation was probably the best path and if school #2 is truly interested they will hopefully respect that and he can see them later in the year