2018ssdad, I am a 2019 dad, obviously from San Diego, and we will be attending the last session starting tomorrow on LI. There are several schools we reached out to via email earlier this week as many have suggested. I can see who opened the emails because we use a service that tracks that (recommend this). My son is like yours, a little on the shy/humble side when talking to coaches. We also will have to wait until at least Sept 1 to hear back if anyone shows interest. I think you got really good advice above from all of the responses. Please let us know how it plays out. Good luck to your son (and you).