Thanks everyone for your thoughtful comments. I especially enjoyed reading the post from Calisoprtsfan. It is so true that our children know what they want and we need to support them in their decisions. My son is not me and does not think like me; he needs to follow his own path. I feel better seeing positive comments about the many directions he may take. I know in the end it is important that he is happy. If his choice leads to unhappiness, he will feel good that the decision was his and he will hopefully learn from it rather than place blame on someone for making him do something he did not want to do.