D8 -let me add I also am sorry for your loss. Due to a tragic motocross accident of my son's friend, I do make it a point to tell my son I love him frequently.
Motocross accident - my son has a friend who played with him on his travel team and in HS. His friend's 2nd favorite activity after baseball was motocross racing. A few years back while racing in an event he took a spill and the next rider came down directly on his helmet. Though he survived, he suffered serious brain damage and to this day can barely walk and has serious speech/comprehension issues. He's come along ways, but has a long, long way to go.
It tears me up when I do see him as he is a great kid and they are good family. Life can take strange turns and you simply cannot predict what will happen.