I don’t know anything about these coaches nor the coach on the previous thread.
IMHO and based on experience with two college players...there’s multiple sides to many of these stories.
1) Parents are way too involved and wear their children like medallions. My Dad and Mom were too busy working at the Ford plant and trying to put food on the table but that was 35 years ago. We like to post “our” accomplishments on this site and Facebook and Instagram...I think my guys would be mortified but that hasn’t stopped me.
2) We look at the winning coaches getting fired (as in these two recent threads) and we question the parents. I always question the parents, myself included, winning or losing. We (me) are too invested in our kids’ lives.
3) And I see winning coaches and losing coaches that can be good or bad or sometimes both...they’re human. As RJM stated on a previous thread, some are screamers. My youngest college guy has one now. That isn’t coaching whether he wins or loses. That’s just screaming. And he’s losing but that’s for the AD to noodle.
4) It was noted on the other thread that starters parents don’t complain. No kidding. They don’t want junior to lose his spot. They (we) aren’t more virtuous or truly supporting the coach. We don’t want our boat rocked.
5) Really good coaches understand the enormous impact that they can have on a young person’s life and they treat that with incredible respect. It isn’t about winning in this context IMO. It’s about positively impacting someone’s life. I want to (and I hope I have the clarity to) always support this type of coach.