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Well, it's son's turn to hang 'em up. 

I wanted to post for two reasons.  One, for some reason I think I'll feel better talking about his last playing chapter and this is the only place where I would do that in any detail.  Two, I think sharing his story can be somewhat insightful for those aspiring to play college ball.

So, first, the final tally...  his college senior year was a good one.  Full time OF and leadoff hitter, .315 BA, .417 OBP, reached base safely 80 times in 49 games, double-digit XBH's, at or near the top in runs, sacrifices and stolen bases.  Lowest strikeout rate and fewest defensive errors among regular starters.  Even though he was only at this school one year, his team was as college teams should be - a brotherhood.  They qualified for their conference tourney and made a great run as a #5 seed, making it to the championship, winning the first and finally falling short of an NAIA national birth by one inning in the "if" game.  He finished, I think, the way one should... playing meaningful baseball in truly "win or go home" circumstances.

So, where's the insight?  We have to back up a bit...  it's in the journey.

Son is a small LH throw, RH bat outfielder.  Like others who fit that profile, he had to rely on his ultra-competitive nature, outwork everyone and play with reckless abandon to excel.  That came with a price.

He was a decorated HS player but tore up his ankle senior year.  The luke-warm recruiting trail went pretty cold.  So, he chose to go to a competitive JC here in California.  He made it through the gauntlet of 90+ players in camp in the fall, made the roster and then tore up his non-throwing wrist, requiring reconstructive surgery.  8 months rehab - missed the season.  He was told he likely would not be able to hit again.  So, new plan was to go to a different JC as a LHP.  Meanwhile, as he rehabbed, he discovered that he was able to hit again and decided to, instead, try to make the team as a position player.  They didn't really need OF's - had a guy that would be drafted and a few other strong returners.  Once again, he faced about 85 players trying out in the fall.  He made the team but it took a while before he got any game time.  His opportunity came when a starter forgot his game jersey on a road trip and pi$$ed off the coach.  Son got the start, did well and didn't let go.  The season ended for him when he got knocked unconscious in an outfield collision - concussion.

  The next season (his redshirt sophomore year) he returned and had a second .300+ BA / .440 OBP and earned all-conference recognition.  However, the JC coach insisted the players not get distracted with recruiting and let him take care of it.  Well, Coach ended up moving on and left some guys high and dry. 

So that summer, son scrambled to find a home for the fall and finally got an opportunity at a D2 but only as a preferred walk on.  He started the fall 9th on the OF depth chart, had a great fall, culminating with Fall Series MVP award and earned significant PT early in Spring.  He kept hitting the ball hard but they stopped falling.  While he was still used situationally and as defensive replacement, he lost the opportunity to get back on track with the bat.  Even though he had and still has a good relationship with this coach, he didn't put up the numbers necessary to return in a role that would be meaningful.  So, here he goes again... a fourth school in five years - about 2,000 miles from previous school and couldn't possibly be more different in almost every way. 

It is not easy getting interest or attention as a college senior coming off a down year.  He was pretty much limited to the handful of schools that recruited him out of JC.  And he made the most of it.

Along the way, he has changed majors and had challenges with getting transfer credits with some of the most basic of courses.  He played through the last year with a partially torn labrum and possible PCL knee issue.

So, you wanna play college baseball....

You'd think he would be ready to be done.  Nope.  His aspirations now are to get into coaching at the college level.  He has secured an assistant coach role with an established summer college organization and will be coaching players across all levels, getting started in a week or two.  He is home with us very briefly.  Meanwhile, he comes down to the field and helps me with my HS team.

He will go back to his current school next fall to finish up his class work and the HC has already appointed him to be part of the coaching staff.

 

 

 

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Yes Sir! What a post. What a journey. That is a guy I want on my team. He will take that same passion, dedication and commitment to his next step and will be a winner. I know you are extremely proud of your son. But I think you should change the title to your post. Cabbage IS Cooking! He's just getting started putting all that experience to use. Congrats and thanks for that post. Inspiring - gives me goose bumps. And CD you are exactly right. These are the posts that keep me coming back.

What a man you have raised! Congrats Cabbage. You now have a kid who has & will continue to face any challenge. He knows what failure is, knows what success is & what it takes to get there. He has just an incredible resume for coaching. Well done man! Thanks so much for sharing his / your story & please do not "retire" from helping us.

For me, personally, I would love to hear more from coaches on this site. I know it is the "HS" baseball web but the more college or next level coach input the better I feel.

It's always tough when a player decides his playing days are over.  In sons case, he was just tired of never feeling well. 

He caught the coaching bug last year, and decided he preferred his office to be outside rather than inside.

Although having success at coaching, he will tell anyone how very difficult the job really is.

So with that said, I wish your son much success this summer and glad he is finishing up his degree.

FWIW, I find this next step much more enjoyable!

It's always tough when a player decides his playing days are over.  In sons case, he was just tired of never feeling well. 

He caught the coaching bug last year, and decided he preferred his office to be outside rather than inside.

Although having success at coaching, he will tell anyone how very difficult the job really is.

So with that said, I wish your son much success this summer and glad he is finishing up his degree.   Keep us posted about how he is doing.

FWIW, I personally find this next step much more enjoyable!

cabbagedad posted:

Well, it's son's turn to hang 'em up. 

I wanted to post for two reasons.  One, for some reason I think I'll feel better talking about his last playing chapter and this is the only place where I would do that in any detail.  Two, I think sharing his story can be somewhat insightful for those aspiring to play college ball.

So, first, the final tally...  his college senior year was a good one.  Full time OF and leadoff hitter, .315 BA, .417 OBP, reached base safely 80 times in 49 games, double-digit XBH's, at or near the top in runs, sacrifices and stolen bases.  Lowest strikeout rate and fewest defensive errors among regular starters.  Even though he was only at this school one year, his team was as most college teams should be - a brotherhood.  They qualified for their conference tourney and made a great run as a #5 seed, making it to the championship, winning the first and finally falling short of an NAIA national birth by one inning in the "if" game.  He finished, I think, the way one should... playing meaningful baseball in truly "win or go home" circumstances.

So, where's the insight?  We have to back up a bit...  it's in the journey.

Son is a small LH throw, RH bat outfielder.  Like others who fit that profile, he had to rely on his ultra-competitive nature, outwork everyone and play with reckless abandon to excel.  That came with a price.

He was a decorated HS player but tore up his ankle senior year.  The luke-warm recruiting efforts went pretty cold.  So, he chose to go to a competitive JC here in California.  He made it through the gauntlet of 90+ players in camp in the fall, made the roster and then tore up his non-throwing wrist, requiring reconstructive surgery.  8 months rehab - missed the season.  He was told he likely would not be able to hit again.  So, new plan was to go to a different JC as a LHP.  Meanwhile, as he rehabbed, he discovered that he was able to hit again and decided to, instead, try to make the team as a position player.  They didn't really need OF's - had a guy that would be drafted and a few other strong returners.  Once again, he faced about 85 players trying out in the fall.  He made the team but it took a while before he got any game time.  His opportunity came when a starter forgot his game jersey on a road trip and pi$$ed off the coach.  Son got the start, did well and didn't let go.  The season ended for him when he got knocked unconscious in an outfield collision - concussion.

  The next season (his redshirt sophomore year) he returned and had a second .300+ BA / .440 OBP and earned all-conference recognition.  However, the JC coach insisted the players not get distracted with recruiting and let him take care of it.  Well, Coach ended up moving on and left some guys high and dry. 

Son scrambled to find a home that summer and finally got an opportunity at a D2 but only as a preferred walk on.  He started the fall 9th on the OF depth chart, had a great fall, culminating with Fall Series MVP award and earned significant PT early in Spring.  He kept hitting the ball hard but they stopped falling.  While he was still used situationally and as defensive replacement, he lost the opportunity to get back on track with the bat.  Even though he had and still has a good relationship with this coach, he didn't put up the numbers necessary to return in a role that would be meaningful.  So, here he goes again... a fourth school in five years. 

It is not easy getting interest or attention as a college senior coming off a down year.  He was pretty much limited to the handful of schools that recruited him out of JC.  And he made the most of it.

Along the way, he has changed majors and had challenges with getting transfer credit with the most basic of courses.  He played through the last year with a partially torn labrum and possible PCL knee issue.

So, you wanna play college baseball....

You'd think he would be ready to be done.  Nope.  His aspirations now are to get into coaching at the college level.  He has secured an assistant coach role with an established summer college organization and will be coaching players across all levels in a week or two.  He is home with us very briefly.  Meanwhile, he comes down to the field and helps me with my HS team.

He will go back to his current school next fall to finish up his class work and work on the school coaching staff.

 

 

 

That's a great story!  I am sure you are very proud.  I know this guy turned out to be a bad guy, but the story reminds me of a player I loved growing up - Lenny Dykstra!  Plays the game the way it should be played!

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