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On getting my son noticed...

M Mulholland10+ posts
Sorry I haven't had the time this week to respond back to most of you who took the time to respond to my first posting. My son and I really appreciate all of your responses and suggestions! We have been busy with his practices for high school this week, plus I am a full time student and I work full time as well, so time is short as of late! We will definitely be looking into some of the avenues that were suggested by some of you! I know simply by watching him pitch that he WILL make it to the MLB someday and be very successful. If anyone remembers Terry Mulholland who pitched in the World Series for the Phillies, he is a relative of the family, and although I thought he was good, I believe that my son can become more successful as a pitcher than Terry was. My son has a lot of qualities that most pitchers are lacking now. Most of them only see the need to throw hard and that's it. My son knows where to throw the ball, when to throw what pitch, when to be agressive, how to handle pressure, and when he's not having an "on" day. He is one of the most coachable kids I have ever seen. Given the right guidance, coaching, and opportunity, he will go as far as his talent can take him. Thanks again to all of you who are truly trying to help him out with his desire to play ball!
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L lhpx2100+ posts
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If anyone remembers Terry Mulholland who pitched in the World Series for the Phillies, he is a relative of the family,

Then my best advice is to call Terry and ask HIM for advice! He's been there, knows people who are connected to organizations, and is probably a great judge of a player's (especially a pitcher's) abilities.
M Mulholland10+ posts
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Originally posted by Dad04:
Mul,

He needs innings. He needs good competition to challenge him. He needs to fail. He needs to learn. He needs good instruction. He needs to be seen. It is a process that needs to be managed. Good luck.



I agree with you 100%! The only problem that we face is that I am extremely busy with going to college full-time in the medical field which involves lengthy clincal hours, and my wife and I both work full-time in one of our local hospitals. This being said, I don't have much free time to designate to my son's efforts until a year from now. Also, the biggest obstacle we have to overcome is the financial needs that it takes to get him away from home to participate at a higher level on a travel team. I would love to be able to afford him that luxury, although until next year I cannot. I would love to find a higher level team closer to home which would allow him the opportunity to showcase his talents! I am just stepping out to see what kind of opportunities are available to him before summer gets here. I know that someday he will get to the next level, I am just trying to save him some time and frustration in getting there. Thanks again to all!
M Mulholland10+ posts
I know that there is a long road ahead for him. And I am not losing my head, I just have a lot of confidence in my son's abilities. I am not being cocky or arrogant, I just know what he can do and I have seen many pitchers that have opposed him and NOT ONE of them can hold a candle to the way he controls the mound! Someday, his time will come and I know that, I am just simply trying to find him some short cuts to save him some of the adversity he could possibly face otherwise. Thanks.
moundeverestmoundeverest10+ posts
Mul-
I don't think Catcher09 was implying that you had lost your head. It was, however, good future advice, when down the road the 'learning experiences' happen and when you pay your dues. Confidence (in moderation) can be one of the best traits to ever have.

P.S.- Don't let posters get the best of you, most of the time they're probably joking, and its a jungle anyway. Best of luck to you and your son.
catcher09catcher091,000+ posts
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Originally posted by moundeverest:
Mul-
I don't think Catcher09 was implying that you had lost your head. It was, however, good future advice, when down the road the 'learning experiences' happen and when you pay your dues. Confidence (in moderation) can be one of the best traits to ever have.

P.S.- Don't let posters get the best of you, most of the time they're probably joking, and its a jungle anyway. Best of luck to you and your son.


Thank you - you said it better then me
M Mulholland10+ posts
Thanks to both of you! I am not upset with anyone or anything like that. I was just wanting to make sure that I was being understood as far as what I truly feel about the abilities my son possesses. I know from my own life experiences that he will indeed run into many situations in which he will need to find a way to take things with a grain of salt, so to speak, and move ahead with life. Although, he is pretty level-headed and I have never seen him lose his cool with anyone, especially during a sporting event, which is a great trait to have in today's world! Thanks again to both of you!
infidel_08infidel_081,000+ posts
I wish you and your son the very best.

Somewhere in the original thread was mention of the Midland Redskins that might be the right ticket for you this summer, especially with the financial advantages that program offers. I don't know anything about them other than what has been posted on this site.

The program didn't fit with my son's plans for the summer. He said that he would not have been allowed to participate in other, higher-profile events if he played for Midland. But, I don't think his choice should indicate that Midland is anything less than a top rated program that will get your son exposure.
20dad20dad1,000+ posts
mul
i don't agree that they will find your son without help. i say that because there is the chance they won't, no matter how small a chance it's one that isn't worth taking. look for a mlb tryout this summer they are free, if he can throw like you say that will light the candle. there are many showcases out there,but this summer is a very important summer.between jr sr year. between the indians and the reds you should be able to find a scout that can recomend your son to a showcase.or at least lend some credability to his ability. then doors should open. don't wait for them to come to you. good luck in the process.
Dad04Dad045,000+ posts
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Originally posted by Mulholland:
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Originally posted by Dad04:
Mul,

He needs innings. He needs good competition to challenge him. He needs to fail. He needs to learn. He needs good instruction. He needs to be seen. It is a process that needs to be managed. Good luck.



I agree with you 100%! The only problem that we face is that I am extremely busy with going to college full-time in the medical field which involves lengthy clincal hours, and my wife and I both work full-time in one of our local hospitals. This being said, I don't have much free time to designate to my son's efforts until a year from now. Also, the biggest obstacle we have to overcome is the financial needs that it takes to get him away from home to participate at a higher level on a travel team. I would love to be able to afford him that luxury, although until next year I cannot. I would love to find a higher level team closer to home which would allow him the opportunity to showcase his talents! I am just stepping out to see what kind of opportunities are available to him before summer gets here. I know that someday he will get to the next level, I am just trying to save him some time and frustration in getting there. Thanks again to all!


Summer between Jr. and Sr. years is when focus on him will be sharpest. Plan around that time frame for maximum exposure. The Midland program costs a player nothing. A $500 investment plus expenses in a Perfect Game event could result in a 50% scholarship, or more. It needs to be planned for.
T thepainguy1,000+ posts
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Originally posted by 20dad:
i don't agree that they will find your son without help. i say that because there is the chance they won't, no matter how small a chance it's one that isn't worth taking. look for a mlb tryout this summer they are free, if he can throw like you say that will light the candle.


If your son is really any good, a scout will probably hear about him and come to see him. Most full-time pro scouts have networks of coaches and other people who recommend talent to them. Also, if your son plays against a team with a good player who is being scouted, then your son may get noticed that way.

Going to open ML try-outs is a good suggestion, if just for the experience.
20dad20dad1,000+ posts
painguy

we don't have an over abundunce of mlb scouts in our area, but my thoughts were by going to a try-out, he may impress the scout and many scouts have college connections that may help out.

i still believe you need to help yourself be found.but that depends a lot on what part of the country your from too.
BumBum1,000+ posts
I truly wish your son the best of luck but to say you know he WILL play MLB ball someday concerns me. Especially when you make the bold statement that he will be better than a MLB player.

Reality check.

You had better check the odds of playing pro ball on the main website. Am I saying he will not? No. I'm saying you better be a bit more humble and have a **** solid backup plan.
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TRhitTRhit10,000+ posts
2O DAD


You point about pro scouts helping kids college wise is so threu---I think I told this story before but it is worth retelling here in this scenario


Returning from Jupiter two years ago one of our players was in the airport when he was approached by a MLB scout who had seen him play with us---they talked at length and the talk was a the convincer for the young man who at that point was undecided about his plans after HS---today he is a frosh starting at 1B for a Division III powerhouse here in the Northeast

Again that common thread appears--being the right place at the right time to be seen---the more you are seen the more the odds are in your favor of something good happening---PROVIDED YOU HAVE THE TALENT
D 2016Dad1,000+ posts

I read the whole page before realizing this was almost 10 years ago! I too get curious about "where are they now". He was a can't miss in his dad's eyes. I joined this site wondering if my kid could make Little Leagues All-stars. That became making the HS team, that became wondering if college ball was possible. I'll make my last post the day I'm convinced the baseball is over so everyone will know what happened. One data point in the millions of kids who ever aspired to pro-ball. Each one is a unique story.

S SwampboyHSBBWeb Administrator
2016Dad posted:

I read the whole page before realizing this was almost 10 years ago! I too get curious about "where are they now". He was a can't miss in his dad's eyes. I joined this site wondering if my kid could make Little Leagues All-stars. That became making the HS team, that became wondering if college ball was possible. I'll make my last post the day I'm convinced the baseball is over so everyone will know what happened. One data point in the millions of kids who ever aspired to pro-ball. Each one is a unique story.

OP's older son was a 4-2-4 transfer student in college: one year at an SEC school, one year at a JUCO, and year at a strong mid major D1. Was drafted in the late rounds but did not advance. I don't believe the younger son played after high school.

NL nxt lvl1,000+ posts

Everyone of us will have a journey. Each journey unique and enlightening  in its own respect. The stories on here....one of the big reasons to check in often, are gripping and many times heart breaking. The worst thing about this site is NOT knowing the outcome for some of the kids. We need to have some conclusions to most of these stories. We need a " Where are they now" section. 

You start out with 10 + POSTS and by the time your kid is off to college your number is 2,000 POSTS or more. I am 2 years in with another almost 2 years and to my surprise my POSTS are over 1,000! So many questions and so much information in one place by families who have walked in your shoes

When my kid finishes up in high school and plays at the next level I will keep posting until his last at bat. Then I will tell the story of our full journey. The ups and downs. The highs and lows. The scout talk and the showcase talk. I will tell where he showcased and went to camps, and which tournaments. But most importantly  there will be closure for those interested.......hopefully

RJMRJMHSBaseballWeb member since 2007
nxt lvl posted:

Everyone of us will have a journey. Each journey unique and enlightening  in its own respect. The stories on here....one of the big reasons to check in often, are gripping and many times heart breaking. The worst thing about this site is NOT knowing the outcome for some of the kids. We need to have some conclusions to most of these stories. We need a " Where are they now" section. 

You start out with 10 + POSTS and by the time your kid is off to college your number is 2,000 POSTS or more. I am 2 years in with another almost 2 years and to my surprise my POSTS are over 1,000! So many questions and so much information in one place by families who have walked in your shoes

When my kid finishes up in high school and plays at the next level I will keep posting until his last at bat. Then I will tell the story of our full journey. The ups and downs. The highs and lows. The scout talk and the showcase talk. I will tell where he showcased and went to camps, and which tournaments. But most importantly  there will be closure for those interested.......hopefully

Then you hang around and give advice after your son is done playing. You have an administrator change the absurd number of posts to "member since ...."

smokeminsidesmokeminsideMember since 2014
RJM posted:
nxt lvl posted:

Everyone of us will have a journey. Each journey unique and enlightening  in its own respect. The stories on here....one of the big reasons to check in often, are gripping and many times heart breaking. The worst thing about this site is NOT knowing the outcome for some of the kids. We need to have some conclusions to most of these stories. We need a " Where are they now" section. 

You start out with 10 + POSTS and by the time your kid is off to college your number is 2,000 POSTS or more. I am 2 years in with another almost 2 years and to my surprise my POSTS are over 1,000! So many questions and so much information in one place by families who have walked in your shoes

When my kid finishes up in high school and plays at the next level I will keep posting until his last at bat. Then I will tell the story of our full journey. The ups and downs. The highs and lows. The scout talk and the showcase talk. I will tell where he showcased and went to camps, and which tournaments. But most importantly  there will be closure for those interested.......hopefully

Then you hang around and give advice after your son is done playing. You have an administrator change the absurd number of posts to "member since ...."

Didn't know how to change the # of posts note.  Thanks for the tip!

NL nxt lvl1,000+ posts

Agreed. I will give the benefit of all my experience to the countless others who find this site and are desperate in their need for help and direction. ( I know I was )  I have most definitely benefitted and would pass on any and everything I have learned. Also I feel the absolute need to help.

I am one of the parents who have experience with college athletics from a player standpoint and from a parent aspect with other kids who played D1 sports other than baseball. Baseball is much different than the revenue generating sports. It has so many things that need to be learned that can not be transferred from recruiting knowledge of other sports.

And , yes, I will have the admistrator change the number of Posts from X,000 to "member since...".

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