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My son was recruited by his coach and offered a roster spot last summer. He starts school in three weeks! Any tips on what he should expect during fall ball? I've heard nothing is a given in D3, and coaches usually bring in a handful of walk-ons for competition. Other than common sense rules (listen, be respectful, show up  for class, show up for "optional" workouts, show up early for everything, just show up!) are there do's, don'ts, precautions or best practices that he should know to secure his spot on the team? Thanks in advance for your wisdom, and enjoy the journey!

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Congrats on your son making the next step in his journey. Depending on the program the only difference between D3's and D1's are the practice times and the flexibility offered by D3's on class interference and typically the practice start time is a little later in D3's vs D1's. At my son's program the coaching staff just expected the kids to get their work in. If they had a class conflict, let the coaches know, and figure alternative time to get the work done.

He should talk to the coaches in advance and find out what times they have their practices and try to schedule his classes around them. For STEM majors this is not usually possible, but he should at least be aware of the preferred times for practice. 

D3's are really no different then D1's in the sense that the best 9 play, and best pitchers pitch. Fall is the time to make an impression on the staff and teammates. A good fall will help him break into the lineup in the spring.  

 

Again congrats on your son being able to continue to play. I second BOF.  D3 is no different than D1 in that the the coaches expect you to put in the time  attend everything unless a class conflict and BE ON TIME. D3 or D1 it is still more serous and everyone wants to win. Be the first on the field and the last off, first impressions go a long way., all that is true. As far as who is brought to the fall and class conflicts, that varies by team. My D3 older son's team did not bring in any more than would be on the team. His coach does not over recruit but there are a few kids who are not recruited who have tried to earn a spot and coach was fair to give them a chance. It's an academic D3 so most of the athletics are held after the scheduled class and labs. 

Some coaches do routinely bring in many guys and whittles them down for the spring. Every coach has their own philosophy on recruiting and what it takes for them to win.   I have a friend whose son is at a D3 where many more kids showed up on the fall than he (the player) was expecting. So again much depends the coaching philosophy and the relationship between the athletic dept. and the faculty. 

No matter how many athlete's are there, be ready to compete.

Show up in really good shape. Use the time left to be sure he is in the best shape he can be. He does not want to be one of the players showing up with no stamina. And it also shows how serious he is. Coaches will notice if he keeps up withbhis older teammates. 

Make sure he understands, that the coaches will notice the company he keeps. Many teams have clicks, or groups, that prepare differently. There will be older guys that may not have ever won a starting job and may be jaded. He wants to avoid those guys. Hang with the guys who continue to compete, and don't gripe, or blame others. 

Keep up on his classes and maintain his grades. For my son this was very important. If you have merit aid at many schools you have to maintain a certain average after your sophomore year. That is easier to do, if you do well your Freshman year. As classes get harder, it is easier to maintain a good GPA, if you did well early. When you are taking Organic chemistry, and struggling, if you are already well above the minimum GPA, it is more forgiving,big you get a C. 

Good luck.

  One of the biggest differences between D1 and D3 athletics is the level of academic support that the program provides to the athletes.  D1 programs have money invested in their scholarship players and most have structured study halls & mandatory tutoring sessions (if necessary) in order to insure eligibility.  That is not the case at most D3 programs.  D3 coaches expect their players to take care of their classwork (and grades) without any hand-holding or regular monitoring.  For 18 year old kids, this is more realistic for some than others.  All significant programs (at every level) over-recruit, but none more so than D3.  Tuition is money, and D3 schools use athletics to lure kids into the school that may have little chance of making a roster.  So be prepared to compete.  Being recruited to a D3 school is an opportunity to go out and prove yourself every day. (That is true for any program, by the way).  It's not a validation that you have made it.  Kind of like the real world in that respect.

 

 

 

One of Sons' Showcase team snippet & college nugget, "If you're on time, you are late!"  Show up 20-25 minutes early for everything, and I mean everything.  My son showed up 10 minutes early for an exam (Engineering Dept.) and most of class already there & taking the test.  Think about it, the extra time with a class & on field, gives you a chance to compose your thoughts & mentally prepare yourself for...what's next...what do I have to do to succeed in this situation.  The mental grind in college is tremendous. Keep stress level down, control what you can & stay healthy!!!

 

Super Groovy posted:

My son was recruited by his coach and offered a roster spot last summer. He starts school in three weeks! Any tips on what he should expect during fall ball? I've heard nothing is a given in D3, and coaches usually bring in a handful of walk-ons for competition. Other than common sense rules (listen, be respectful, show up  for class, show up for "optional" workouts, show up early for everything, just show up!) are there do's, don'ts, precautions or best practices that he should know to secure his spot on the team? Thanks in advance for your wisdom, and enjoy the journey!

As BOF stated there is very little that separates D3 from D1 or any D for that matter.  It all a grind.    My son attended a D1 school that looks like a D3 in many respects....it is kind of like a hybrid between the two.   The bottom line is your son is going to challenged in so many ways, and there are going to be many, many distractions.   Parties, girls, alcohol & drugs, etc...the list is very long as you probably know.  My advice would be to show up in the best shape possible and stick to his studies, baseball and find an upper classmen mentor on the team.   His organizational skills, time management skills, and priorities are going to be tested in the first semester.  The first few weeks may appear easy at first....don't be fooled because the school work doubles and the baseball coaches demands get even greater.   Most of them figure it out after they've felt like they've been run over by a "bus" a few times.  Fall ball is when you try to earn your spot on the Spring travel team as not everybody travels to away games.  Keep your eyes on the prize!

Good luck!

As usual, great info by others.  One thing I've seen with D3's - some start baseball activities right away as do most programs and some allow students to get acclimated to school for a period of time (I've seen as much as 3-4 weeks).  Son should know what the program will be with his school.  

Sometimes, it's just student/assistant driven conditioning to start.  So, regarding conditioning, in addition to showing up in shape, it is a good idea for player to ask the HC now if there is a specific conditioning program he wants him working on.  If it matches up with the fall conditioning, this will put him ahead as far as being in shape specifically to the routine the players will be doing.  

Also, once baseball activities start, teams tend to jump right into competition with intersquads.  Player should be mentally and physically ready to compete from day 1.  Find out what facilities/cages will be accessible to players before and outside of practice and when.  Partner up and use them.  If school doesn't start baseball activities right away, don't let that deter.  Player should be taking cuts, reps, etc.  Be resourceful and forceful.  Get the edge.  Don't settle for earning your roster spot.  Show everyone you are serious about competing for a starting/contributing spot NOW!

IIRC D3's also have a limited number of fall practice days. For some reason 16 sticks in my mind. That's days the coach can run things - but he also relies on captains practices and (ahem) mandatory lifts with strength coaches. My son's D3 would end their Fall season w/ a scrimmage against a nearby D1 team - three 6 inning scrimmages. Might be the first time you see your son play all fall which is a very different experience for many (if a parent shows up at every practice, the coach will notice and figure out who you are.... whether it helps or hurts perhaps depends on the coach or maybe how much $$$ you could donate to the program ). 

Like others have said - be prepared, work hard, keep your eyes, ears, and mind open at all times - never forget to watch your back.  In the Fall, the freshman are the "next best thing" until they prove otherwise. Oh and next Fall, guess what there's a whole new crop of "next best thing's" showing up and the coach is all too happy to tell some lazy upperclassman to work harder because there's some freshman gunning for his position.

Great advice here once again.  My son is transferring from D2 to D3 this year so really appreciate what has been written.  Coach did say 16 days of practices under his supervision for the fall with all other activities being self directed but facilities are even better at the D3 than they were at the D2 so junior will be taking advantage of that while acclimating to the new environment.  The grind continues but when it is all you know and all you want, it isn't so much a grind as it is a lifestyle commitment. 

Good luck to all incoming and continuing student athletes. Get after it....

saw this on twitter, long but powerful, link below.

Dear Matt (from 15 years ago),
 
You are getting ready to go to your first fall season in college baseball. base stealing There is a lot of excitement and a little fear of not knowing exactly what to expect. This is great and completely normal. It will be the most fun you have had in your entire life. You will meet your best friends, form great memories, win a ton of baseball games, and find your passion in life. This passion will lead you to coach amazing players, work for great people, and eventually take a job that allows you to meet your beautiful wife. This will all come from the next four years. Congratulations!
 
I do need to tell you something about college baseball though, you will not be ready.
 
You think you are better than you are. It would really be beneficial to shut up and learn to work at a much different level than you are used to. This means becoming borderline obsessive. This means learning to practice what truly needs improved. Your entire life you have just relied on living in a batting cage vs. actually going and fixing the other areas of your game. You have a football mentality and need to understand the weight room and determination will help, but it won’t fix everything you need fixed.
 Lifting weights to steal bases
Listen, everyone in college can hit. Everyone wants to play and is good enough to play. You need to be a high-level defender, and this is going to take reps. You need to learn to run the bases. You need to learn to think the game. You are behind and will lean toward complaining instead of taking the time to get caught up. In fact, it will take you an entire year to realize that it is you who needs to change.
 
This change isn’t easy. It will save you time and grief if you take this advice and come in with a beginner’s mentality. But you won’t. You are too stubborn and will need to fail over and over again before you realize the truth. One day you will look back and say “I’m just going to shut up and develop a plan.” This plan will be real. It will teach you life lessons. It will teach you true goal setting. But you won’t do it now. Instead you will try to fall on your high school accolades – which won’t get you very far anymore. Nobody cares. They don’t care about high school, summer ball, or the recruiting process. The culture at college is simple, the best guys will play… that isn’t you yet.
 
You will come in unprepared and overwhelmed. There will be a lot of positive things happening that will mask the negative that will need Positive thoughts to help steal basesimproved. You are going to meet new people, live in a new environment, and will be completely responsible for yourself. This is fun and exciting. But you also are responsible to live up to your end of the bargain. You are here to be a student-athlete. That means you have to get good grades and nobody cares if you struggle anymore academically. They will just get someone else. You have to get your school and baseball work in because nobody owes you anything on the field or in the classroom. The deal was you would do BOTH.
 
Please take my advice.
 
First, from a baseball standpoint…
 
1. Build comfort.
What I mean by that is you want to eliminate things that make you uncomfortable. These insecurities will get in your way of actually performing. If you can never slow down practice, the amount of repetitions will weigh you down.  Being unprepared allows room for self-doubt.  You cannot afford to be anything but extremely confident in an environment like college athletics.  Confidence is EARNED through preparation.  Get prepared – starting now!
 
Here’s an example:
You need to come into college in the best running shape of your life. This means running sprints and distance. This means working in the weight room. This means eating healthier and sleeping more. Don’t wait until 3 weeks before you go to campus. The best time to start was May; if you didn’t in May then the second best time is right now.
 
When you run you have to mix sprint days and distance days. You will realize this in your second year, after you have already given a first impression. You will make it your goal to never lose a sprint again. The only way to do this is to run on your own and actually run sprints that are tough to recover from.  Take my word for it and give the best first impression possible. Get in shape!
 
This is very different than relying on speed. It isn’t about you being fast. From a coaches standpoint there is nothing that says “I don’t care about the program” or “I am unprepared” like seeing a guy who cannot keep up with the team. In fact, there is nothing that stands out more than a guy who is great shape and winning meaningless running sessions. It will say “I am ready” or “I took my off-season serious.” It also shows you are mentally tough.
 
Controlling things that are controllable (like getting in shape) will help you deal with things that are out of your control.  Conditioning will go from a concern that adds stress to eventually become one less thing to worry about.  Allow everyone else to worry about conditioning.
 
2. Take ground balls.
I mean take a billion ground balls. Don’t worry about the surface you are fielding on, in fact I would recommend a rough surface. The backyard, parking lot, or a field all work. Keep track of the balls you boot and try to make this number less the next time. This needs to be a daily part of your routine. No excuses. You fielded the ball clean or you didn’t.
 Fielding ground balls to build confidence in base stealers
In about 10 months you will realize this and buy your dad a fungo. You will field ground balls every day in the rough back yard and begin to stop making excuses for yourself. I wish you would just take my word for it right now!
 
3. Learn to bunt.
There is nothing that is more frustrating than a player slowing down practice because he cannot bunt. Study pro players. Get into those positions and look like you know what you are doing. This is easy. This is something you can control. Look good bunting because every team has to practice this. You know it is going to happen so be prepared.
 
Listen, you do some things very well but those things will be masked by the “minor” things you have neglected. Mastering these “minor” things will allow you to show off the things you do well. They will allow you freedom to play.  Until you do this, it will always feel like you can’t get anything right.  
 
4. Don’t talk.
Nobody cares about what you tell them.  It is all about what you can show them. What can you do right now? You telling everyone what you have done in the past is just annoying and frustrating. The faster you close your yearbook the better. Just focus on improvement and what you can do to help your new team win.
 talking trash to help steal bases
Don’t tell anyone what the lineup should be or where you should be playing. Just work. That stuff will work out fine without your opinions. There is literally nothing you can say that will help your situation but there is plenty that will hurt it.
 
You will be given plenty of opportunities to join in with other players feeling sorry for themselves. You need to pass on these opportunities. There will be times you are frustrated but venting to other unhappy players will get you nowhere. It is simple, just be better.  Just work until you are one of the best on the team without any doubt.  Your friends want you to be happy and will listen to you but this avenue is doing nothing but prolonging the reality of the situation.
 
5. Your coaches will help you.
They are not personally mad at you when they have suggestions. No matter how they relay the message, they are trying to help you fix issues that are keeping you from reaching your full potential. Don’t take it personal. If they didn’t care they would ignore you. As a coach, I’ve never recruited anyone hoping to not play them.
 Be coachable to help learn to steal bases
It is crucial that you understand how many players I’ve coached who show up to school and cannot play the way they are capable. You will fall into this category. Yes, you will figure it out eventually but this can save you a lot of time. I have coached so many players that are getting in their own way. They play with this storm cloud that follows them 24/7.
 
This cloud is formed from anxiety that could have been avoided. The only way to make this cloud disappear is ownership. Take ownership in everything about your development.  This includes being honest with yourself after making a mistake or with areas of your game that need improvement. Make investments every single day to build skill which will ultimately build confidence.  Passing blame is one of the biggest mistakes you will make, once you learn to overcome this obstacle you will grow at an incredible rate.
 
From a classroom standpoint…
 
1. Schedule classes appropriately.
It will be very tempting to schedule classes allowing you to sleep in. This is a trap. The later you start the more you push your routine close together. This means rushing from class to practice and skipping early work (where you will do the majority of your improving). Your days of sleeping in are numbered. You might as well lose that attachment now.
 Don't sleep in get up to work on stealing bases
2. Go to class.
This is the most important thing. Once you miss one single class it will be easy to do it again. This is the biggest factor in getting good grades in college. Go to class.
 
Once you are in class, then be sure to know all important dates.  Write them down.  Know when everything is due.  Knowing when you have to do each assignment allows you to plan ahead. It is amazing how much you get done when you are actually aware of when it is due.
 
3. Get to know each professor.
Your professors are people. They are real human beings with feelings and emotions, even if it seems this isn’t the case at times. Go out of your way to smile, be friendly, get to know them, and show them you care about whatever it is they are teaching.
 
Each professor is teaching their subject because at some point they chose to be interested in the topic. If you were teaching, you wouldn’t want someone who was just trying to get by. Let me ask you a question, if you were the professor wouldn’t you show favoritism to those who seem interested? Of course you would! So get to know them and let them know you care about learning and doing well in their class. This will go a long way if you ever need a break. As a student-athlete you need breaks. You will have to miss class due to baseball and it is nice to have a professor who wants to work with you on that.
 
How do you get to know them?
  • Sit in the front.
  • Sit there every single day.
  • Say “hi” when you walk in.
  • Don’t look like you just got out of bed.
  • Get your work done on time.
  • Come up with good questions about their lecture or your work.
 
4. Make good study habits.
When you get to campus there will be a lot of temptations. You will get to your dorm room, meet a new roommate who is also a baseball player, and move to a floor with your best friends. It will be hard to sleep at night. It is so fun it will feel like you just cannot miss anything. This happens every single night.
 
You have to balance your new friendships with your classwork. Some people don’t need to study. You do. Get comfortable in the library. There are rooms designated in the basement where everyone will leave you alone. If you make habits of studying every night then you won’t have to stress the night before.
 
This will also open more TRUE free time. College will offer FAKE free time. For the first time in your life you won’t be going to class from 8:30-3:00 with no break. You will have class at 8:00-8:50 then be off until 11:00. This seems like a break but it isn’t. This is all time for your work. If it isn’t class then it is the weight room, if not the weight room then time in the cage, if not time in the cage then extra ground balls. TRUE free time comes to those who are caught up. One of the biggest traps in college you will face is FAKE free time. This will result in constant stress which will get in the way of baseball.
 
5. Have an open mind.
You will be amazed with the amount of freedom organization will give you. Use these opportunities to LEARN MORE. You are at a time in your life where you will have NOTHING to do but baseball and class. When you are going through it you won’t realize how easy this is. It is easy. Stay organized it will allow you the freedom to get a full college experience.
 
The door will be open to new topics and different personalities. Don’t assume anything about anyone. Learn about them. When you become a coach you are going to coach ALL walks of life. Use your college experience to truly get to know people. This will help you relate to everyone and make you a better person.
 
6. Invest in your education.
Find out what you love and dive into it. When I was in your position, I wish I knew I was going to be a baseball coach. I would have catered everything to learning about strategy, leadership, motivation, etc.
 
When it comes to school you will get out of it what you put into it. You will be lost when it comes to choosing a career. It is fine. You will figure it out. Understand that the habits forged in the next four years will help any profession. Put great effort into any class you take. You may not take the specifics from that class but you WILL take the habits created to perform well.
 
You are going to choose to be a history major. Yes, you read that right. You are going to fall in love with studying the history of everything. You will then graduate and get a job in baseball. In baseball you will use your ability to research and be open-minded literally every day. You will use your ability to communicate every day. This irrelevant degree will help form you forever.
 
So there is the secret. If you follow this letter college will be a breeze. You will be successful from day 1. But I know you. I know you have to learn from experience. I know you probably haven’t even read this far down. In a weird way that stubbornness will help you in life. In a way this will allow you more important experiences.
 
These experiences allow you to find out what it feels like to be desperate. To find out what it feels like to be embarrassed and hurt. I know what those feelings are and I know that hard work can get you out. What an amazing lesson. So the more I write the more I realize it isn’t about the failing you are about to go through but about the learning experiences. So try to follow this letter, but when you do screw up, learn from it. Don’t be the best at anything except adaptability. 
 
As long as you embrace learning this experience will only be positive. Every experience is molding you.  Without these trials how will you know what you are really made of?  This is truth.  Every person is faced with this at some point.  You find out what you are really made of then get the choice to change or quit.
 
These next four years will go so quick you won’t believe. Before you know it you will be 33 and wonder what happened. Enjoy every single minute and learn, that is what this next journey is about. Not being perfect but trying your absolute best to get close. It is about the ability to redirect back to the path quickly. So good luck. When times are tough get this out and remember it will be fine, even failing will help you. Just get back on track!
 
PS. Grow your hair out now.  In real life you can’t pull that off in most interviews!
 
Good luck,
Matt (from 15 years in the future)

Another question for D3 parents:

Did any of your kids work at school?  

Included in our kid's FA packages is fairly small sum for work study.  Assuming minimum wage it would work out to  6 or 7 hours per week.  I'm thinking he may not like it, but he can probably handle it ok first semester, especially if the job is something like desk at the gym or library so he can study some of the time he's on duty, but that the pressure would be too great during the spring.

Any experience with this?

 

JCG posted:

Another question for D3 parents:

Did any of your kids work at school?  

Included in our kid's FA packages is fairly small sum for work study.  Assuming minimum wage it would work out to  6 or 7 hours per week.  I'm thinking he may not like it, but he can probably handle it ok first semester, especially if the job is something like desk at the gym or library so he can study some of the time he's on duty, but that the pressure would be too great during the spring.

Any experience with this?

 

Some programs handle it different ways. Some of the schools said they would have a job working on the field or other baseball related/athletic stuff. Were my son went thatbwas not an opportunity to participate in. They had a job fair and son would have had to skip class to get there early. Not sure but there may have been more students, than opportunities. For him he preferred to spend his time studying than working. At least that is what he told me. 

So as many things your mileage may vary. 

JCG posted:

Another question for D3 parents:

Did any of your kids work at school?  

Included in our kid's FA packages is fairly small sum for work study.  Assuming minimum wage it would work out to  6 or 7 hours per week.  I'm thinking he may not like it, but he can probably handle it ok first semester, especially if the job is something like desk at the gym or library so he can study some of the time he's on duty, but that the pressure would be too great during the spring.

Any experience with this?

 

Yes...  Let's face it there are many work study jobs that allow for plenty of reading time on the job. It's not 9-330 M-F at school followed by 4 hours a couple nights a week at some retail job. The pay depends on the job, but I don't recall it being minimum wage type scale at a (sorry, not trying to be political, but) liberal leaning school. Maybe my kids were fortunate. Also, remember that work study money is fixed.  That is - if you get 2K, then it's 2K for the whole year. So in your off-season you work more hours, then in season you work less hours so you're good. The boss knows the deal and makes adjustments to the schedule as there is always someone who is not in season and there's always more workers available. I had one son work in career services - excellent gig BTW - forced him to know where it was from freshman year! He was a football player, so in the fall it's less busy there, but in the spring well he get all his hours in. My other son (baseball) ended up in a "job share" type thing where he'd work more in the Fall answering phones for some department, while another student worked the Spring.

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