Wow, Aleebaba. You assert that Midlo Dad "did not get the message 'loud and clear'", and then go on to write a whole paragraph demonstrating that Midlo Dad heard it exactly right-- you don't want to hear his advice.
In fact his advice is sound. It may not be appropriate for your style of parenting, but it is hardly "ridiculous", and doesn't cross any line that I can see.
I'm also bemused by the comment "especially when thread was not meant for you." This is the Recruiting Questions section. How could a thread not be meant for someone with the wealth of experience Midlo Dad has? Or does your comment really mean please only respond if I (Aleebaba) will like the response? The value of any thread lies primarily in informing readers other than the original poster. If that weren't true, this board couldn't possibly survive.
IMO, a parent filling out a questionaire won't hurt his son's chances, but one sentence from the OP caught my eye: "I have sent emails to colleges." I strongly believe, as does Midlo Dad, that this can do no good, and very likely will harm a player's standing with college coaches. (Unless the parent has the resources to make a large donation of money or services to the program, I guess.)