Sorry to hear that Gunner, it is sure a shame when an injury results in a career defining decision. I was in a similar place thought wise as you are initially. I ultimately realized that it was my son's body and his choice to make after learning what he would have to go through. It was extremely hard for me to comprehend his decision when he elected not to have surgery after working so hard + struggling so mightily just to get on the field to play. I wish nothing but the best for your son + family coming to a decision and moving forward.