Things are not always as they appear in the complex world of a very simple process called RECRUITING. The recruiting process is a highly emotional experience for the parent, hard work for the player, a business for the colleges, and a source of revenue for many others. Everyone in the loop is fully aware of where everyone else stands, with the exception of you, the emotional involved parent. Only after you have completed the process, read the showcase evaluations, and watched a few college games, does everything start to really come into focus.
Go back and review the process, look at your receipts, the college recruiting letters, the NLI, read your diary, count your grey hairs, count your change, and count your blessings. Pat yourself on the back because he made it!
Fungo
Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience.