This is getting pretty personal. I'd ask both of you to step back and rethink your posts. Injuries are tough for both players and parents. I think many of us have been there. My daughter played the last 17 games of her college career on a leg/knee that was injured. Knowing that both of you have had the stress of dealing with a hurt child should enable both of you to empathize with each other. I hope both of you will rethink your approach to this thread.