This is a great thread - every post provokes thought. TxMom, it was great hearing from a pro-Mom.
It is interesting to me to look at my post from last summer, and compare where he is now. I still don't know how hard he will be willing to work. As a sophomore, he is looking at a potentially impactful summer on the horizon. I am trying to not push but I do suggest. I remind him (and myself) that I'm here to provide support when he wants to do the work.