Are you saying you are sneaking or trying to sneak into your sons Facebook page(s)to spy on him---now that is scary on your part--invading your sons privacy like that!!!
Hope your son does not find out !!!!
I also agree with Ozone regarding our neck of the woods
Another item-- I follow and communicate with my players, past and present, on Facebook---they react to a Facebook message quicker than an email---it can be a great tool---also they may get a note from me if I see them post something inappropriate and out of line