Thank you Fanofgame, Very wise words and truly appreciate it. I do want to add that I have told him that if he does not want to play college ball that is fine with me and support that. I personally feel drained that with all this. We want him to be happy, he is the one that wants to play and gets pretty upset when he doesn't do well. We have our moment that we bang heads but what parents don't with their kids for whatever reason or sport. I feel if you want something work hard and if you still can't achieve then be proud you did your best but if you don't put the time and you are not performing then I cannot handle complaining and whining.
We treasure every moment with your kids and yes sometime we all fall short of doing what's right but we do love our kids. We aren't perfect and I do appreciate your comments, they were well said.