Texan, my response was very well thought out. I always say what I think and stand by it without any fear. Your reasons obviously are your own and are to be respected.
BB1 - maybe I don't understand this. You want to say things about your son's coach and/or his program and not have it come back to bite your son? Here is my position: if you don't have the courage to say something and stand by it with your name, then don't say it at all. That's a stand-up way of ensuring that your son isn't damaged by any of your posts.
Character, after all, is defined as what you do when no one else is watching.
Too often, people get hurt by others who hide behind the safety of their anonymous screen names. You both have your reasons. I think differently than both of you. That's all.