Perhaps some of you are in areas where there are a number of fellow hsbbwebsters (or lurkers) and you feel the need to protect your son or yourself.
There are a few ways to accomplish this --- don't brag, don't post anything negative about a player, coach, program, or parent. If you have a sensitive question, PM a member who you feel would know the answer, rather than posting on the public forums.
Years ago, I had a particularly sensitive question and I PM'd Bob, our esteemed founder. He didn't know the answer, so he volunteered to ask the question on the public forums himself.
Texan, anything on the web can be fabricated, including opinions and the experience that led to those opinions. I'm just suggesting that information --- level at which one's son plays, whether the poster has coached, maybe even the poster's job --- displays an element of trust that gives one's posts more weight.