rynoattack posted:"I've always told him that we're playing a long game here."
I guess I don't understand that if you are playing the long game, why you would risk his future health?
I have always believed in being upfront and transparent. I would go talk to the coach, and let him know exactly what the situation is. Since it is an injury, and your son's future is at stake, I think it is appropriate for you to talk to the coach. Additionally, you mentioned that there are rumors that your son needs TJ, and it sounds like they have spun out of control. I would assume the coach has heard this rumors as well. I would clear them up, and then focus on getting son healthy.
YES, and, on the other hand, DON'T try to sugar coat it and make it sound like he'll likely be back in a few weeks. You would just be setting your son and the coaches up for frustration.