All of your comments very helpful.
Son should check with coaches about possibility of pre-read or need thereof.
i agree that a shared email address is the way to go. We did not do it this way and it would have been helpful. Instead, we’ve been logging into our son’s email account to check things periodically, with his permission. However my husband made the mistake of opening an unread email from a coach while my son was at school— he later regretted doing that. If we were to do this again, we’d set it up differently! Great advice.
I just hope he likes one of these schools a lot!