Daddyball should (and kinda does) stop at the age and skill level where paid coaches become a viable alternative.
If you're in a situation where you find yourself frustrated by Daddyball, then you are most likely in one of the following situations:
1) You've got a kid who somehow has not been competitive enough to find his way onto a team with a paid coach
2) You need to wake up and get your kid onto a more competitive team
3) Your kid is very young, and you need to relax, because you've probably also got a young wife and long baseball future to look forward to