I was going to say so much more, but then, I think you have all the answers with all of the scouts at your door in URBANDALE, IOWA.
I applaud your sons academic record.
You, like so many others, take things out of context! In my opinion, as I've said before a couple of times, if you don't get your son the opportunity to be exposed in a PG setting in Iowa (and you live in that thriving metropolis of Urbandale, Iowa (Where is it?)), which is the home state of PG; and, if you can afford it and don't do it for your son, yes, you are a lp.
Has nothing to do with his academic effort and gpa.
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Someone pm'd me. Is Urbandale next to Cornfield in Iowa?