Rick...
I understand what you are trying to say, I think, but I am not sure why. When I first read your post the perception I got was that you were painting small college coaches with a very broad brush, and generalizing in a very negative way. Hopefully my perception was wrong.
I know hundreds of small college coaches, having been one myself for a long time, as well as hundreds of Division I guys.
My perception has always been that the men in college baseball, at all levels, are among the most genuine people I have ever known.