Herewego,
Same with us CoachB25. Honestly, we did very little except drive him to practices & games, cheer, and support him. My son is very driven, and head strong but you'd never know it. When he was away from baseball, he is quiet and always reading or working on something new. For example, last year he learned how to arc weld. When he got out of college he started playing competitive tennis. In high school, he taught himself how to play the guitar. When he was under our roof, we just let him do his thing. He would come to us for advice or ideas when he needed them.
The one thing that my wife and I did (that my son did not see) was educate ourselves on different college options and requirements with baseball and without baseball. So, when my son(s) came to us with questions, we had the answers or at least an idea where to get the answers. We never stopped learning or asking questions. HSBBWeb is a great place to get answers or at least perspectives.
Good luck and enjoy the ride!