20dad - I find you to be one genuine person and always enjoy reading what you (and your wife? ) have to say.
I think you give a lot. Perspective would be very high on that list...you give very good perspective.
And infielddad - you beat me to it. I have truly enjoyed nearly every post in this thread as well. It gives me comfort to read some very good and genuine thoughts from everyone.
A "community." Thats what it is...with lots of friends that I truly treasure. Thanks everyone.