Dave, I coached a kid once that went on to a very good D-1 Program. He never Rah Rah etc. He was the silent type. However, he did his work by example on the field and then off of the field, he was a FORCE in the dugout. Say that one great play, you knew where he would be sitting - Right next to the kid that made the great play talking to him and building him up. Say some teammate pointed out some outstanding play he made. He would say thanks, then compliment another player. Every interview he did was always about team and teammates achievements. That is LEADERSHIP!