"However if a team as a group is being unfocused, lazy, not hustling, showing up late and unprepared, a coach grabbing HIS teams attention with a few expletives is not the end of the world."
Any HS coach whose team is lazy, not hustling, showing up late, etc., is a pathetically bad leader and should look INWARD--should look in the mirror.
Freddy77 that is literally what I said. Keep reading the next couple of sentences of my post after what you pasted.
"However if a team as a group is being unfocused, lazy, not hustling, showing up late and unprepared, a coach grabbing HIS teams attention with a few expletives is not the end of the world. The coach of that team knows the pulse of that team the best. I promise you he does. Again not my style, but I am not going to condemn a coach if he got on his team loudly for a lack of effort. I do still think a good coach should first self reflect and ask himself, what have I done wrong to have my team playing like we are."