"What Daddy hasn't" was a joke referencing the stereotype that all Dads - especially newbies - second guess the coach. It wan't an actual accusation directed at anyone on this site.
And while it's true that no one can give a definitive answer to what his coach is thinking, they can speculate, which is what most people do on message board. Or perhaps they can give an example - whether positive or negative - about a similar situation and what happened. It's called a conversation van anvan an be pretty cool.
As for being a Mom, that matters not a bit as it pertains to baseball knowledge, which you certainly possess.