It is puzzling to me why Jeff's question would be met with hostility on this site.
I think it is important that people feel free to post their experiences without ridicule.
Me I got very tough skin but many are afraid to post. Over the years I have been on this site I have seen many exit because of being attacked.
Our experience was quite different in that we did no showcases and relied on a video marketing campaign . My guy was a soft tossing lefty topping out at 82-83. I guess that is bragging.
His goals were different than many. He had no interest in pro ball. He only wanted to play D1 in the South which the last time I checked is not a crime or a sin.
His 1st choice college recruited him or should I say strung him along for over a year. I finally pressed for an answer and was told they were going with a JC transfer. I guess that is also bragging.
My point is that we all have something to add even if you don't agree. All I can say is I wouldn't change a thing.