Thanks for the outpouring of advice. I have done most of the things that were mentioned and we are suppose to be going to a game in March, where I am sure the coach will let her mingle with the rest of the team - so maybe that will help. I know the kid is going to make friends right away and probably never want to come home - in fact, when we had our campus tour, the guide (a student) and her hit it off instantly. The obstacle is getting her comfortable enough to give it a try. Hopefully, it will work out. All of the other schools that are showing interest are ****her away than that and the local schools had heard that she was a lock at this school and have made offers to other pitchers. There is one school local that offered to 2 pitchers and only 1 has accepted, the other has about a week left to commit. I spoke to the coach last week and he said that if she doesn't, he will have a spot and would consider her for it. It may turn out to something as the coach and assistant have both coached her on travelball teams before.
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