AGENTDAD
I have found that in most cases the circle of freinds and acquaintances will the be the same in college as they were in HS-- the athletes, male and female--- it will all happen by itself-- first the teammates will be the freinds then gradually she/he gets to meet and know the players on the other teams---
I can tell you that any time I called my sons house at college, he lived off campus with three fellow team mates. it was rarely he who answered the phone-- it would be a voice I never heard before--"Hi Mr Rizzi, this is Mary from the softball team--I will get him for you" !! If it wasnt a softball player it was volleyball player, or a football player or a swimmer or a basketball player.
I think you get the point-- tell the young lady to relax and it will come together naturally.
TRhit