h&u, if someone has demonstrated integrity in their dealings with me, I am glad to tell other people about that experience. It doesn't mean they are perfect. In fact, we all know that no one on this earth is perfect. So do we say that no one has integrity? I think not.
Is asking that question on this forum going to give perfect results? Of course not.
But some of us have boys who are, or will be, in the recruiting process. And it would be nice to know if someone out there feels that Coach X has shown integrity.
If you don't feel comfortable saying something positive about a coach because you haven't known him intimately all your life, then don't. That is okay.
I am not concerned about adding parents or HS coaches to this, because that isn't pertinent to my reason for starting this thread. If someone wants that info, then let them start another thread.
If we have reached the point that we can't say nice things about people...