JJ: glad to see your post! I think we'd all appreciate a few more nuggets from you about how it "really" is in college. My son will be starting college in the Fall. The recruiting coach suggested that he come and "hang out" with the team over the next couple of months (i.e. take a yoga class with the players, etc.). Son is not sure that he'd feel welcome by the players..after all, he's just a highschool senior and not part of the team yet...I said "yeah, but you'll have to break in with these guys eventually and think of the incoming freshman who live out of state who won't have had the chance you're getting now to hang out with the team."..Do you think it would be weird for son to go hang out with this team?