quote:I don't know what to say, if your son was their top recruit, they would have waited or put on more pressure.
If all you say is so, my son would have moved on after that phone call.
Don't be discourages, don't let your son be discouraged.
All I can say is that waiting may have been a good thing, if he really wanted to attend, if he really felt comfortable he would not have hesitated. Sometimes things do happen for a reason.
You are right, TPM. We are moving on, we've said so to one another, son has rehearsed what he will say and what he wants to say & won't. I also feel that things do happen for a reason, and must feel things work for the best. Guess I wanted to put this out to, #1) get it off my chest, & #2) let others beware. Not my nature to not trust, take others at their word, but am rethinking it in this "business." Yes, too ... he did hesitate, didn't jump at their offer when initially put on the table ... but it was couched in a "please let us know by mid-October." Enough, thanks for listening.