Now that we've fully discussed all aspects of this situation, wouldn't everyone agree that the presence of that question on the information card is simply a new question aimed at assisting this minority of students and not a indication that the school strongly encourages growth in this population? The school is probably pretty much the same as it was before this question was included (maybe a little more tolerant) and therefore this question's presence should not allow a mature parent to let his mid-pubescent son decide the school is now no longer acceptable. I wonder if Stanford offered some kid, but the kid had to fill out the application and balked, would mom and dad be happy then - or would they quickly have the "grow up" talk on the spot.
I think this thread is now getting further from baseball than the one that started with football ever did.