First let me say I think that perfect game provides the best opportunity for players to be seen and your contributions and insights in this forum are much appreciated. That said, I think that a kid or his parents that repeat their son's desire to play for several top colleges as being a first choice have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. If you dated several beautiful women and told them similar things and it turned out they by chance got together and discussed it the answer might be to find several more that you have better chemistry with and not come to the mistaken conclusion that u should have handled it differently. The coach you want to be with surely knows he's not the only one and is competitive enough not to let a little competition turn him off. Better to know now in my opinion.