A side note, there are no hard feelings against the coaches that did the times. Zero. They're humans, we get that. They are great at baseball, coaching and lots of other neat things, and my son has an immense amount of respect for them and their team and can't wait to play for them. And truly, I know what my son can and can't do. The time being off upset him a tad, and then me in turn with protective parent instinct. The main point of my post was about having self control when that instinct is triggered and wanting to step in and fix things for your kid. Just not always so simple. I passed that test, whew. After all the years of being a ball field parent I guess I should have learned a few things along the way.
All of the input here is great. Thanks so much.