All good advice!
To add, here are three things we include in a letter for parents after tryouts:
1. We will gladly speak to parents but only after speaking to the player. Although it may be difficult for players to speak to a coach after tryouts, we realize that this is a life skill that should be practiced. If parents jump in beforehand, the player loses this opportunity to learn this skill. Please encourage the player to come speak to a coach.
2. Stay positive and focus on the big picture. Being openly negative about coaches, other players, and the baseball program does not help players move on in a positive way. It shifts attention away from areas that the player needs to improve in and places the focus on external factors.
3. Encourage the player to continue with baseball. Nowadays, there are many teams to play for outside of school. Understand that growth rates and skill development are different for every player. Some continue to improve and some peak early in their careers. Umpiring, coaching Little League, being a team manager, statistician, or assistant are all ways to continue their love for the game outside of playing.
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