to simplify further - -
if your son is offered a beer -
"the sky isn't falling" & he's not in a moral "mud pit"
y'all can reach any conclusion ya want with BAD LOGIC
I've been "testing" the speed limit & rolling thru stop signs for 35 yrs (illegal), it didn't lead to cheating (my college transcripts can attest to that), I didn't go on to cocaine, robbery, or assault
We taught (attempted?) the kids the hazarards of alcohol abuse, how to act responsibly around the opposite s-e-x, that a 396/375 hp Camaro can be dangerous (

I'm pretty sure the car stuff took OK, as neither drives anything that will go fast UPHILL
