YGD,
I am not disagreeing with you, but reality is that is what takes place often on OVs, he's giving you an honest up front birds eyed view of what goes on, and IMO, parents need to know this happens. Has nothing to do with the coach being "bad".
The bottom line is that the coach and the players want the best guy to come, and they are going to make sure that they show him a really great time, whatever that may be.
Players that are assigned to be with recruits on weekends, report back to the coach on how they feel, because for many coaches, this is a big part of the chemistry process. They tell the coach only what the coach needs to know, the coach doesn't need TMI.
If anyone thinks this doesn't exist, you should read into what goes on for football recruiting.
To each his own, we all see things differently.
BTW, his book tells you were he went to school, he's not hiding anything.