Give the young posters a break. I was a basketball recruit going on visits to upstate NY schools 28 years ago and experienced the EXACT same thing. Meet the coach, tour the campus, get hooked up with a player, and party that night. It was an introduction to college life. My parents never went away to school, so I had to make these discoveries on my own. Good or bad, that was the way it was - and seems to still be. If my 2014 son is good enough to get recruited, he will have the benefit of my knowlege having been there and done that. However, even the best kids may not be capable of perfect decisions when they are 17.