While I appreciate your reply I must say that at this point in a son's baseball life (HS Junior), for those wishing to play at the next level, summer ball is probably even more important than the HS season. It is very important to play on a quality team that will draw scouts at the major tournaments. So, in one sense, yes, we are wrapped up in the "me". The "me" being my son wanting to play on a competitive team.
That being said, my son has developed into an excellent teammate and knows the importance of team.