Coaches are usually pretty good about meeting you....even if they aren't necessarily interested. My son went to Cary, NC for the 12U NTIS trials. I emailed an assistant at UNC a couple days before we got there....asked if we could come by. He said "the facility will be locked...text me when you get here". We got there and there were at least a couple dozen kids/parents walking around. Most of them from the older 15U-18U age groups that were also in Cary. I texted the coach....he came and let us in. Keep in mind my son may have been 4'8 at the time. You should have seen the looks on those older kids faces lol. They took us in, gave us a tour of the locker room and let my son walk around on the field. To this day he still talks about it