Teach your son to communicate with the coaches. Teach your son how to understand his abilities (pitch counts, ect.).
If communicated well, most likely the coach will understand. If he doesn't, well then go to the next level until you have exhausted all options. I would recommend a professional and positive approach from these players.
It is time for our youth today to learn to communicate for themselves. How they communicate is the key to selling their points and intentions.
This situation is a touchy deal I know, but it can be worked with. When my wife has a problem with my boss, she doesn't go talk to him......I do.
