Thank you for all the advice everyone. It all seems so daunting at times...but we will do what we can to help him. He was invited to go to PG this past fall with a competitive team, but flights were $$ and it would have meant missing many days of school, so we declined. However, son is working with a trainer a couple days a week and started Driveline program about a month ago. He attended one of their East Coast tours and we were very impressed, especially with the arm care.
Iowamom23.... I have seen and heard so much and it has become quite clear that the college coaches hold all the cards. Seems like it will be an emotional roller coaster ride. Son is very confident, mentally tough and driven. I just "sit in the stands" and enjoy watching him. All of the responses I have received confirmed what I was thinking...that we need to be more proactive.