It's not XBOX or PS3 and the amount of time spent on it. It's all about baseball and how much they're really into it. A baseball junkie who loves XBOX will work on his baseball game. Almost all the time, it's about the parents obsession with how their kids should love baseball vs how their kids feel about baseball. I think the problem is when parents see their kid treat baseball as a hobby, they think there's something wrong with the kid and he's not dedicated or something when in reality, he may just see baseball as just a hobby or part of who he is as opposed to be only about baseball and nothing else. Parents who are obsessed with their kid's baseball seem to have a difficult time wrapping their arms around this when their kids grow up and find there's more than life than baseball. For some, they're hungry and want baseball to be a big part of their life but almost always, it's out of enjoying all parts of the game including the work that goes into becoming a top ballplayer while others, enjoy playing hs sports, do the necessary work to play the game and move on to other interests in their life when baseball is done. You can't force a player to eat sleep and live baseball 7x24 365 days a year. The ones that do need no motivation and can play all the XBOX in the world but will be the first ones on the practice field and the last to leave. That's something you can't force a kid to do. He will just do it and take care of whatever it is that needs to be done.