No I wouldn't want to know. After all, sometimes when you don't get what you want you end up getting something completely different. Then lo and behold - it turns out to be so much better than it would have been if you had gotten what you originally wanted.
We have a set of twins that we didn't expect, yet we all consider them the most awesome blessing.
My son was crushed last season when USD closed down their baseball program, yet last week his new team won their regional tournament and tomorrow he plays in the NAIA super-regionals.
When you start out on your path in life it is just that - a path. Sometime you crawl over the log in path, and sometimes you have to switch to another path. When that happens you end up on a different path, but it's still a path, and it still leads to where you are going.
Life is funny that way.