Hokie
Love the " we did things right " statement--- fortunately I can look back as my last completed his college career in 1999 and feel good about it
I look at back at all the joy he brought me during his entire baseball career from LL to college--obviously I did not do everything right
as a parent but then none of us do
Bottom line is that whatever,however we did it it worked for him
For me the memories tell me how well I did as a parent--did I use a crystal ball-- no way-- just took it day by day and followed instincts