Regardless of what we say, he wants his pound of flesh. It won’t end as he hopes, and maybe we just need to let it play out and see how things progress in 6 mo the with an update, ok no name?
When you are looking for a job and they call an old employer, there are certain things you can’t say about someone legally. This is not the same, and if he wanted to torpedo your kid he is within his scope to do so. They called him, remember? He didn’t reach out to them.
I have a feeling the fruit didn’t fall far from the tree here, and dad doesn’t have all the facts and is flying off the handle. This is a hot mess.
hand me the popcorn, this is better than watching the Bachelor