Advisor....my husband and I are fortunate to have a good relationship with our son....but....knew I had to explain to son why we needed to be pro-acitve....considering the work involved (and yes, most of it falls on the parents)....anyway....I sat him down and had him read about the "5% Stat".....you know....the one that says only 5% of all high school players go on to college ball.....it hit home.....