anotherparent posted:Fishnsail, your story is a cautionary tale for recruiting. There are many on this site, long-time posters don't seem particularly surprised by it, but new-ish people (like me) are probably shocked. I'm following several of my son's D1 friends, most of whom are on fall rosters of over 40 (although nothing like 53). I am concerned for some of them (fall ball playing time, as per another thread); I've realized that I have no idea whether any of them is on athletic scholarship or not (not something people talk about). Presumably if a program is fully-funded, only 27 could have scholarships, that would mean your son's school persuaded more than 30 players to walk on. That is pretty outrageous.
thank you . Yes we are a bit concerned. The not knowing and being on the edge part is a big ordeal for many of the kids, mine included. While you try to visualize going to this school for the duration ,it can be a bit unsettling that your direction can change in a blink. But isnt that how life is?
It is how we deal with the adversity ,challenge and change that hopefully makes us a stronger person.
Of course, at the same time , we hope that he feels like he has a secure home.
I try to imagine myself in everyday life , if my current work or home situation was in limbo.
How would we handle it? and we are much older and more mature with experience.
Put that pressure on a 18 yr old and I am sure that it can be a cause of reflection and second guessing. Combine that with many new responsibilities.
Sink or swim... eventually they all swim..